IT’S TIME TO GET YOUR LIFE BACK.

Christian Counseling
for Marriage & Relationships

What marriage should be is a place where we each become better as we grow with our spouse and create a loving, fun, happy, unbreakable union. But what marriage really is can be vastly different depending on your situation. What it shouldn’t be is a toxic, hurtful environment where you aren’t sure if you can trust the other person or whether or not your marriage is worth it.

You want your relationship to the best it can be.

Marriage is a blessing from God, and a Christ-centered marriage is a place where we can all become better. A married couple goes through a lot of phases and seasons in life together. Some of them, many of them, are amazing and can be full of building great memories.

Perhaps you’ve been together for a while and it feels like you’ve grown apart, and you just don’t have that “spark” anymore.

Most people who seek Christian Marriage Counseling feel like they keep going around in circles, arguing about the same things over, and over, and over again. They feel like no matter what they do, the keep falling into the same patterns and having the same arguments. Maybe you can relate.

Are you tired of fighting, arguing, and going to bed angry?

It’s time to get your marriage back.

The strength of any relationship is reflected in how well the couple connects to each other.  How well are you connected to your spouse?  If you’re here because your partner had an affair, or if you feel like the relationship is falling apart, chances are you’re not connected very well at all.

What is the number one goal of your marriage?  If it’s taking care of the kids, or making sure you work hard enough to get the house, car, or life you want, you’re doing it wrong. If your number one goal is anything except connecting with your spouse, you may find your marriage full of heartache, anger and bitterness. 

If you want to get your marriage back to where it should be (or take it to where it should have been in the first place), you have to learn to connect with your spouse.

Do any of these sound like you?

  • You don’t feel heard

  • You can’t find a compromise

  • You can’t imagine your future together

  • You feel stuck

  • You have the same fight over and over

  • You don’t feel supported

  • You don’t trust them

  • You can’t make decisions together

As you’re reading these situations, and you think “Yep, that’s me,” that’s a pretty good indication it’s time to take a serious look at marriage counseling. Remember, it’s not a bad thing to ask for help. It shows you’re willing to take a step to make things better. It’s an investment in your future.

Getting the help of a counselor doesn’t mean you’re “weak” or that something is wrong with the two of you. It just means you need some help getting things back on the right track. That’s why we’re here.

Christian Marriage Counseling can help you get your relationship back.

It really is possible to feel better. Imagine a life where you could:

  • Really feel joy.

  • Stop arguing all the time.

  • Feel like you did on your wedding night.

  • Finally stop feeling like you’re on the opposite team of your spouse.

  • Change your relationship for the better.

No matter your situation, there is hope.

The beauty of marriage is that you can reconnect, even if you’re not sure how. At Revive Counseling Center, we believe love deserves a chance, and if you’re reading this, chances are you do too. Honestly though, it’s not an easy process. When your marriage is off the rails, it takes hard work to get it to where you need it to be. People who are willing to put the work in, to learn to communicate and forgive and truly listen to the heart of their spouse find a lot of success and long-lasting marriages.

Christian Marriage Counseling helps you rise above your challenges and start moving toward your ideal life with less anger and frustration and more love and joy. You’ll get the practical tools you need to move forward in your relationship and find real, lasting change.

Even if you’re not sure if your problem is serious enough, marriage counseling may be able to help. We’ve helped people struggling in their relationships find joy. Our clients discover it's possible to have a productive relationship.

At Revive, you have a trusted team of counselors and marriage counseling experts who are here to help.

What to Expect

Christian Marriage Counseling consists of 45-50 minute sessions that help the two of you work through the challenges, fights, and arguments you’re facing. In addition to listening, your counselor will guide you towards solutions; they play an active role in the process. Here’s what to expect:

  1. First, your counselor will provide a safe, accepting space so that you will feel comfortable sharing your struggles with them.

  2. Through hearing your story, your counselor will start to get a picture of what your challenges as a couple are.

  3. Next, your counselor will start by helping you with immediate concerns like managing difficult emotions and challenging fights.

  4. Keeping your unique goals in mind, you’ll figure out what’s needed to help you reach them.

  5. Over the course of your sessions, you will start making progress towards the life you desire.

Research shows marriage counseling can positively change your relationship, getting you back to a place of healing and hope.

Frequently asked questions about marriage counseling

  • It’s always beneficial when both spouses can commit to the counseling process, but that isn’t always possible. Sometimes it’s a scheduling issue, an issue of work, or because the other person believes he or she doesn’t need to come to counseling. But a lot people can benefit from coming to marriage counseling, even if their spouse doesn’t join them. Don’t let the other person’s inability or refusal to come hold you back.

  • If you’ve been fighting, arguing, and feel like there’s no hope left, that’s a good indicator it’s time to reach out. We make no guarantees in counseling, but we can provide you with the tools to help you move forward.

  • This can be a delicate topic to bring up. But if you’ve been fighting and arguing and if you feel like you’ve done everything you can possibly do on your own, it’s time to have the conversation. Simply discuss what your thoughts are with your spouse and why you believe counseling can help. Let them know you want the relationship to grow and thrive and be healthy, and that counseling is a great start.

Let’s get started.

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To get started, schedule an appointment with our convenient online calendar, send us an email, or give us a call. It's time to get your life back. We can get through this together.